Okay so the Chinese regime has ended and now you are all added as authors. So please feel free to post as much as you want, which can include pictures, rants, mean comments or venting...you know, the fun stuff.
The first topic I have been talking about with other people is the topic of flirting. How do you flirt? How do you show someone that you are interested in them? When is flirting appropriate and inappropriate? When is it crossing the line when you are dating someone else?
My friend and I were talking about how girls use flirting to get what the want, win an argument, get free food, etc. I have never been able to flirt for free food so if you all can tell me how to do it, it would save me a lot of money in NYC.
Flirting...something that I've never been good at. So I really don't know. I don't know how to flirt, don't really know how to show someone I'm interested in them. I think I know more about how to end up in the friend zone than in the "potentials". In a way though, I think this is a good thing because if being myself ends me up in the friend zone, then I know that it wasn't meant to be.
ReplyDeleteAs for when flirting is appropriate or inappropriate, I think that's pretty obvious in terms of location. Club? Yeah. Work? No. Bookstore? Ideal, but probably not.
I know that some people think that flirting is okay when you're dating someone else, as long as it doesn't go to far, but I disagree. I just feel like the natural high you can get from flirting with someone you're dating and total into is enough - why would you want to flirt with someone else?
I think flirting to get free stuff is a talent. And hey, if a guy is stupid enough to give a cute girl something just because she flirts, then more power to her. Shit, if I was hot enough that girls would hook me up with free stuff, I'd do it all the time!
All in all though, I have no clue when it comes to flirting. I've had conversations with a lot of people about this subject, and I believe that everyone has an idea of how to do it except for me. No lie. The one thing I've learned though, is that there's no way someone can explain how they "flirt". Flirting is something that just comes out naturally, it would seem.
Flirting is accomplished by giving backrubs and licking your lips, and is appropriate at funerals and during community service. Whether you are dating someone does not matter: If he liked it then he shoulda put a ring on it.
ReplyDeleteIf a girl flirts to win an argument, the guy (or other girl if gayness) is a sucker. If a girl uses sex to win an argument, everyone wins.
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